The Tragedy of the Same-Sex Marriage Debate

by walterm on May 17, 2012

Since President Obama announced his support for same-sex marriage last week, I have been terribly disappointed at how cheap the debate has been in the media, and especially how our president who claims to be a Christian could come to a conclusion that violates basic, undisputed teachings of the Christian faith. In his Good Morning America interview, he stated that after talking with gay friends, staff members, his two daughters and his wife, he arrived at his decision to support same-sex marriage. He also factored in his Christian faith and the “golden rule,” which is nowhere in the Bible despite popular belief. But how could he factor in Christian faith for something that is against the Christian faith? Personally, I don’t think it is possible, but that is between him and God to sort out. Apparently he doesn’t feel the Bible is the ultimate authority on these matters as much as he thinks his friends and family are (and as a typical politician, the gay lobby/voting block). But then again, since his views have been “evolving” on so basic an issue, it doesn’t appear the Bible was ever particularly authoritative for him in the first place.

What Obama would have you believe, as well as the mainstream media that shills for him (including some Fox News commentators), is that legalization of same-sex marriage is a matter that should be uncritically accepted with no thought to the societal consequences. It is this simplistic notion that I think severely degrades the debate, as if making wholesale changes to an institution that has been around since the dawn of civilization is something that can be implemented without serious thought or debate. And of course, if you don’t blindly go along with the program, then you are either a bigot or a homophobe. It cannot be that you see changing the very definition of marriage, which will affect laws, religion, politics, and society as a whole, as something that should take sober, reasoned and thoughtful consideration. Because the debate is purely emotional and lacking in any reasonable scholarship, I think we should all beware of the possible results. We have some who falsely compare this debate to the “interracial marriage” debate in the mid to late 20th century. Yet it is the fundamental ability to naturally procreate that grounds marriage as a natural right irrespective of race. So there should never have been a question about interracial marriage.

Throughout all of human history, societies have been shaped markedly by the various laws, customs and institutions involved in the institution of marriage and the family, and it is utterly foolish to believe that same-sex marriage will not play a significant role in changing the dynamic of the family from what it has been known to be traditionally. Those in favor of same-sex marriage seem to feel that an institution as fundamental as marriage can be infinitely flexible as they would have it, but if that is the case, then why don’t they include polygamous, polyandrous, polyamorous, or incestuous relationships in their definition of marriage when there is the consent of participating adults? Moreover, same-sex marriage discriminates against bisexuality, which is now recognized in the courts as a legitimate sexual orientation. Under same-sex marriage proposals, a bisexual cannot marry one person of the same sex and another of opposite sex, thus allowing that person to enjoy full sexual expression within the confines of marriage. So why are bisexuals excluded? Clearly, same-sex marriage advocates recoil from this because they know that fundamentally, when you have broken the traditional definition of marriage, then the definition becomes fully arbitrary. And those who might otherwise support same-sex marriage begin to see where this is ultimately headed.

In my view, our society as a whole loses if same-sex marriage is allowed to advance, because the insitution of marriage will become a purely instrumental one based on choice and autonomy, having no intrinsic value when unmoored from natural law as it has always been. Either marriage will continue to be defined as a sacred institution in accord with natural law, or it will become a purely subjective institution based on the varying definitions humans can come up with that they themselves determine are “committed, loving relationships.” As political philosopher Jean Bethke Elshtain argues in The Meaning of Marriage: Family, State, Market, & Morals, a wonderful book she edited with legal philosopher Robert P. George, marriage is not an instrumental good, but an intrinsic good whereby human beings can find integral fulfillment, with the marital act being a “two-in-one-flesh” communion of persons, one that is only made possible by the biological, emotional, and spiritual complementarily shared by man and woman. In her view, political neutrality between competing visions of marriage is impossible, so the law inevitably must support one or the other. Unfortunately, neither Obama nor the media invited George, Elshtain, or other thoughtful scholars to the debate, so Americans must settle for a superficial, emotionally driven one. And that is the tragedy.

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Liberty vs. Equality

by walterm on April 8, 2012

America has a serious problem.  In previous generations, Americans valued liberty over equality.  In other words, people were little concerned with equality of income, but were far more concerned with everyone having the same opportunity to achieve whatever level of prosperity their talent, hard work, and luck could bring.  Yet today, we have such a clamor over “income inequality” coming from the liberal ranks, with many of the most strident being those who have achieved the level of income of their dreams.  For some reason, now that they are successful, they suddenly want more government redistribution of wealth.  Of course, this government redistribution won’t affect them appreciatively, but it will affect those who aspire to their level of success.  The more government becomes a player in the economy, creating more complex regulations and picking winners and losers, the less access to capital there is for motivated people who want to create something new and make other people wealthy in the process.  We know these people well:  Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg, Warren Buffett, and Sergey Brin to name a few.  Surprisingly, all tend (or tended) to lean towards the very liberal causes that hinder the success of those just starting out.

No less, we have the President of the United States, Barack Obama, playing the class warfare game with abandon.  He constantly rails against Republicans as being extremists who want Americans to “fend for themselves,” and he recently asserted that Republicans are promoting a “thinly veiled social Darwinism.”  This is patently false about Republicans, as Obama doesn’t seem to realize that much of what the federal government is doing is actually not the function of government at the federal level.  Both Republicans and Democrats have dramatically grown the federal government over the years, encroaching more and more into territory belonging to the individual states, where it has absolutely no business constitutionally (with a notable example being the healthcare law which will hopefully be struck down).  Yet Obama and the Democrats keep hammering for more.  That’s why we’re going bankrupt just like the European countries that Obama wants to emulate, such as Greece and Spain.  The reason these countries are in such a mess is because of the mistaken view that a central government can actually control an economy and make decisions for people that they can and should make for themselves every day in free markets.

I was listening to the Andrew Wilkow show on Friday, who on this day had an outstanding guest commentator.  A gentleman called in asking the question about which is more important when in conflict:  liberty vs. equality.  Both the guest commentator and the caller agreed that liberty trumps equality every time.  The commentator quoted Lawrence Reed, President of the Foundation for Economic Education.  Reed published an article titled Seven Principles of Sound Public Policy, which is well worth reading for those who believe in freedom and liberty.  In principle one, Reed states the following:  “Free people are not equal, and equal people are not free.”  This “equalness” of which he speaks is not equality before the law, as before the law we are all equal in terms of race, sex, creed, gender, or religion.  What he speaks of is equalness as it relates to income or material wealth.  Free people are not equal because when people are free to be themselves, there will be vastly different levels of wealth.  We are all unique beings, and it is foolhardy to expect that we will somehow be equal in the marketplace, since some are more industrious and willing to work.  Some have more talent than others.  Yet politicians such as Obama encourage people to be jealous of others, and seek to punish success (except for theirs) instead of celebrating it.  This is unbecoming of the President of the United States, and is utterly destructive.

Reed further makes the point that equal people are not free.  Wherever you look in the world where people are “equal” economically they are certainly not free.  And this doesn’t include just communist countries, but it has been the direction of western European countries that are now finding out that this path ultimately leads to economic collapse.  Trying to make people equal that are inherently unequal takes away incentive, striving, and industriousness.  Yes, every society needs to take care of those who are disabled, elderly, or truly indigent, but those who have the ability to work need to work out their problems for themselves.  If there are people that are cheating each other in the market, then the government does have a role in creating and enforcing laws that maximize win-win situations while minimizing win-lose or lose-lose situations.  In other words, government should be a referee in the economy, and not a player.  And government needs to be close to the people, at the local, county, and state levels.  At the federal level, the duties should be few and enumerated just as our Constitution says it should be.

Getting back to the original question about liberty vs. equality, conservatives believe first in liberty, while liberals tend to believe in equality first over liberty.  Isn’t it obvious?  I don’t believe liberals always have the best intentions, but even liberals with the best of intentions of bringing up those on the bottom economic rungs don’t realize that the unintended consequences are to actually bring people down since dependence is created instead of greater independence.  That is the ultimate result, as conservatives argue, even though it may not be the intent.  Unfortunately, government programs are often judged on their intent and not their result.  And thus we have a failed “war on poverty,” as well as entitlements that are taking the country into bankruptcy such as Medicare and Social Security.  These are examples of government making promises it knows it can’t keep, and now liberals demagogue almost any attempt by Republicans to fix these problems even though they know too what the end result will be.

So what is true equality?  For liberals, it is equality of outcome, which we know has never worked, and never will work.  For conservatives, it is equality of rights, of opportunity, of pursuit, of freedom of worship.  This latter view is the wisdom passed down to us by the framers of the Constitution and the great men such as Locke and Montesquieu whose ideas molded the Constitution.  The idea is to avoid tyranny before it can take root, and provide maximum liberty and freedom in a properly ordered society consisting of these as well as the right to one’s own property.  It was C.S. Lewis who said “Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron’s cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience.”  The moral busybodies of today are liberals, and it is time that Americans stand up and say “enough of this.”  We will have that opportunity in November, and it cannot come soon enough.

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Rights, Responsibilities, and Sandra Fluke

March 11, 2012

As most of us already know, Sandra Fluke wasn’t quite the Georgetown Law student we originally envisioned, who provided her testimony before a mock hearing of the House Democratic Steering and Policy Committee about being “denied access” to free contraception in her insurance coverage provided by the school (which, of course, she was fully aware [...]

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ObamaCare: And Now You Know What’s In It

February 11, 2012

Under the ill-conceived and named Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act, commonly known as “ObamaCare,” the country found out this week partly “what’s in it” and just how insidious and onerous this health care bill is.  That is precisely why they did not want anyone to have a chance to peruse it carefully before it [...]

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Obama, Liberalism, and Black Christians

January 27, 2012

I continue to be amazed at the ignorance and neglect of philosophy, history and the Constitution that I encounter in most discussions with liberals. Liberals, who are by no means lacking in intellect, seem to have no philosophical moorings, and no desire to learn from history. Their arguments are driven by emotion, usually evoking a [...]

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Immigration Reform: The Impact on Low Income Americans

December 30, 2011

I have had the wonderful privilege to develop a friendship with a fellow conservative activist over the past couple of years, Stacy Swimp. Stacy and I have been trading posts on Facebook regarding the Lincoln Club immigration reform policy.  Stacy has brought a highly valid concern that I believe needs to be addressed, specifically what [...]

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Voter ID Laws and “The Assault on Voter Rights”

December 27, 2011

It seems with each passing day I hear an even more ridiculous charge of why the current wave of state voter initiatives is an assault on voter rights. I have an Obama-loving, Afro-centric, liberal progressive university professor on Facebook that I correspond with who is absolutely positive that the Voter ID laws are specifically intended [...]

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Follow Up to “Color vs. Competence”

September 4, 2011

I received some really great feedback from my last post, but wanted to follow up on a couple of negative comments, as well as acknowledge some excellent commentary from one of my Facebook friends, Joyce. I will start with the negative and then get to Joyce’s comments. One of the comments was that I was [...]

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Color vs. Competence

September 3, 2011

Well, you can probably guess where I’m going in this piece. It seems no matter how poorly President Obama’s economic policies play out, and no matter how bad the economy gets, he is not held accountable by those who are simply happy to have a black president. Whether it is on Facebook arguing with my [...]

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The Sports and Entertainment Stars Economic Recovery Plan

July 26, 2011

It is interesting that President Obama feels the solution to our economic problems is to tax “millionaires and billionaires” and “private jet owners.” In the interest of brevity, no doubt he could leave out the private jet owners because I can’t imagine they are not entirely included in the former group. I certainly don’t have [...]

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