Lessons Learned from Jason Collins

by walterm on May 5, 2013

I think we actually learned some things from the interesting case of NBA player Jason Collins. I can’t think of anything good that we learned, but it was hardly surprising the way things are going. And just to think, a President who could not recollect simple facts eight months later about a terrorist attack and four dead Americans in Benghazi, Libya, took time out of his obviously not so busy day to call Collins for announcing something as inconsequential and boring as this man’s sexual preference. As always, however, there is more to the story. We find out that Jason Collins was dating a woman for eight years to whom he had become engaged. But he couldn’t bring himself to tell this woman who had put her hopes and dreams in him the truth about himself. He lived a lie and wasted many precious years of this woman’s time, but of course once the media and the President fell all over themselves to celebrate his sexuality, we didn’t hear a peep about his questionable character traits.

Our first lesson we learned is that the LGBT lobby and the media have somehow decided that being gay is not about equal rights, but about being a protected class that is beyond scrutiny. Had this been a heterosexual man who was engaged to a woman but out philandering with other women having made a lifelong commitment to his fiancée, society would still heap some degree of derision and scorn on this man (unless, of course, he happened to be a famous liberal, but I digress). Yet because this man is gay he is “courageous’ and “a hero” for “coming out” about his sexuality having nothing to do with his other (not so courageous) human qualities, and at the same time it is absolutely fine and not further news for him to cheat on his former fiancée, even though he exposes her to the risk of HIV based on his chosen lifestyle. If that’s not a double standard, I don’t know what is.

I think the second lesson we continue to learn is that the media’s continued clarion call for “tolerance” is totally fake and phony. It’s not about tolerance. It is about foisting a worldview on you such that if you don’t accept their view, then you are a bigot or homophobe. My understanding of tolerance is that both sides will be respectful of the other’s views and will accept that people can simply disagree on moral matters. That’s not how the media or LGBT lobby see it. Their morality counts, and yours doesn’t. Their morality is correct, and yours is false. Even though you are not discriminating against anyone, treating both gay and straight people with dignity and respect, but simply believe homosexuality is morally wrong, you are still told that you don’t believe in “gay rights.” Well I, and I believe you reading this, don’t distinguish between “gay” and “straight” rights.

The few natural rights we have are afforded to all people, both homosexual and heterosexual with no distinction other than the obvious case that marriage is afforded to the heterosexual couple for obvious reasons (hint, they can naturally procreate). And just as someone who believes premarital sex is morally wrong is not discriminating against heterosexual people and denying their “heterosexual rights,” someone who believes that homosexual sex is morally wrong is not discriminating against gay people either. It is just common sense, but the media and the LGBT lobby aren’t operating within the bounds of common sense or fairness. They have an agenda and a platform, and if making false accusations allows them to accomplish the ends they seek, so be it. I think that is the greatest tragedy. Here we have people crying out for “tolerance” (where there is no intolerance), yet they refuse to be truthful and, further, extend the very thing to others that they seek from them.

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So today NBA basketball player Jason Collins became the first active male player in American professional sports to come out as gay. Media people were tripping over themselves calling his move courageous, strong, and some identified him as a leader. Some are even calling it historical. Well it’s not courageous, it doesn’t make him a “leader,” and it isn’t even historical because it’s not news and I don’t think anyone other than the media really cares. I certainly don’t because his sex life is his business, not mine. I recall when Anderson Cooper “came out” as if his being gay were some deep dark secret that he had to keep to himself. Well when he did, no one was surprised and no one gave a damn other than the media and some celebrities. There is simply nothing special nor newsworthy about being gay. It’s about as newsworthy as one of Collins’ heterosexual teammates coming out and saying “I’m sleeping with lots of women out of wedlock!” In our society, being gay is nothing of consequence. Gays are not discriminated against in any manner and live their lives just like anyone else. So all I think we learned today is just how puerile the mainstream media is. They have this juvenile fascination with sex just like kids who finally discover their sex organs have some purpose other than relieving themselves in the bathroom. And that just shows you how inane and vacuous is the thought in the media today. They’re more concerned about Obama’s six-pack and Jason Collins sexuality than they are about what happened in Benghazi or why our economy continues to stay stubbornly stuck with high unemployment, record numbers of people on food stamps, and a record number of people on public assistance. The fact that these things aren’t news to the media shows you where their priorities lie.

Its hard for me to understand why the media is so focused and obsessed on everything sexual. They always like to talk about how conservatives are repressed and want to get into people’s bedrooms, yet they are always the ones to bring the subject of sex up, create phony campaigns such as the Republican “war on women,” and clamor for free birth control from the very government they want to stay outside the bedroom (except for when they want the government to enter the bedroom, so go and figure that logic). It is the liberal media that is always chasing around celebrities, digging into their private lives so they can sell the “latest” scoop on who drop kicked who or who slept with who or who is gay, lesbian, or gender confused. Sober adults who are not repressed don’t share in such idiotic and empty-headed pursuits because they just don’t feel other people’s sex lives are any of their business or even should be their business. But back to Collins, I sure hope he doesn’t feel the liberal media has done him any favors. He’s the story of the day and they will move on to the next “sensational” story that will be just as dull unimportant as this one. Mature people don’t care and only wish the best for Collins regardless his sexuality. As a Christian, my concern is for Jason Collins’ soul, and I hope this newly found notoriety does not cause him to further stumble because the media has become his cheerleader. If he is a Christian, then he knows that the Bible is abundantly clear on homosexuality and that practicing such a lifestyle is wrong. It is certainly not a heinous sin, but is on par with promiscuous lifestyles and adultery. Yet it is sin nonetheless, and Collins would best deal with his sin as the rest of us must contend with our own. If he follows the lead of the liberal media in terms of what they find praiseworthy then he has, sadly, been truly deceived.

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